I had a dream….a dream of love
by | Posted in Passionate Results 33 Comments »I had the best dream last night. There were three men in my dream. My husband was one. It was wonderful to see and talk with him. I have noticed in the past few nights when I dream about Ole that he comes in a disguise. But I always know it was him when I wake up. I love dreaming about him.
The other two men were lovers from my past. They were wonderful men. Full of life and everything that comes with it. Both of them always held a special place in my heart.
I did love them but the difference between them and my husband was that I was IN LOVE with my husband. I wanted to spend every moment of every day with Ole and more. The other two…yes I loved them but was not ‘in love’ with them.
People get so whacked out of shape about saying ‘I love you’. I tell the people at the 24/7 care facility where I work ’I love you’ and hug them all the time. Maybe they don’t actually understand the meaning of the words but they understand the feeling behind them.
And most of the people I work with don’t like that I tell them this and hug them. They say we are not their family or friends. We are there to help them with their daily lives.
My colleagues are right. I am not family or, by definition, a friend.
But I tell them because it is important for everyone to feel the love that comes through by saying those 3 little words. It is important because it make the receiver feel special and cared for and that they matter to someone.
Again, maybe they don’t understand the actual meaning but they can FEEL what is being said. Their faces light up and they smile the biggest smiles. They hug me and the love comes right back.
Am I IN LOVE with them? No. But they hold a very special place in my heart and will forever, even after I’m not there to hug them and tell them ‘I love you’. Isn’t being loved part of helping someone through the day?
Do you understand what I am saying? Be bold today and tell someone you love them. Even if it shocks them, do it anyway. Then hug them and let them know they hold a special place in your heart.
EVERYONE needs to be loved. People are happier. People are healthier. Scientific facts! The more hugs a person receives the happier and healthier they are. This goes for all people no matter their level of understanding, age or status in life.
Tell a special someone you love them and see their face light up.
I love YOU!
Passionate regards….Brenda
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